Ukwabelana ngesondo ebusheni bunemiba evuyisayo: imizimba emihle kumaqabane amabini, ukukhululeka okukhulu, ukuzimisela ukunceda, nakumbandela wokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwezesondo. Lo dade wabona ukuba umnakwabo uqaqadekile, ephelelwa ngumoya, waza ke wagqiba kwelokuba amunyise aze amvumele amteketise. Ekugqibeleni bavuswa, baqala ukukhwela ekhitshini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Kwintshontsho elimnandi ngolo hlobo umqhagi omncinci kakhulu. Nangona, xa ndiyibona ekuqaleni, ndacinga ukuba lo mfana unomthondo omncinci kakhulu. Kodwa xa sele emile ngokupheleleyo, ungumntu ophakathi. Ngoku, ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukungena kwakungekho ngenxa yobungakanani belungu lobudoda lomthengi. Ukuba yayinkulu, i-masseuse yayiza kuba nesibindi sokungena ngaphakathi, kodwa njengoko yayinjalo, kwafuneka ndizinze ngokufutshane i-69.